Blake Lively's Promotion Of "It Ends With Us" Is Being Criticized For Glossing Over The Movie's Core Theme

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"Blake lively forgetting her character is a victim of domestic abuse."

Warning: Discussion of abuse.

As rumors swirl about the cast and crew of It Ends With Us having a potential rift, it's worth noting how differently its stars — Blake Lively and Justin Baldoni — have promoted the controversial project.

Drew Barrymore and Justin Long share an emotional moment in a scene from a film. Drew Barrymore looks tearful as Justin Long comforts her, touching her face gently

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The movie is based on a Colleen Hoover novel of the same name and follows flower shop Lily Bloom (played by Blake) as she navigates an abusive relationship with Ryle Kincaid (played by Justin). It's a story about the generational cycle of domestic violence, and the extent of which both the book and the movie succeed in tackling this subject has been brought under scrutiny.

Man and woman gazing into each other's eyes, smiling closely. The woman has long hair; the man has short hair and a beard. They appear to be in an intimate moment

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Rumors of a feud between Blake and Justin, who also directed the movie, emerged after TikTok and Reddit users noted that much of the movie's stars, including Blake and Colleen, do not follow Justin on Instagram.

Blake Lively, in a casual outfit with a blue jacket and patterned shirt, walks through a busy outdoor market

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Justin also did not appear with his cast members on the premiere red carpet or in other promotional material, which he explained: "This isn't my night — this is a night for all the women who we made this movie for. This is a night for Blake, this is a night for Colleen. I'm just so grateful that we're here, five years in the making."

Justin Baldoni in a room with various decorations and plants, looking into the camera with a slight smile

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Sources then told the Hollywood Reporter that Blake commissioned her own cut of the movie, but it's not entirely clear whether or not this would have led to a falling out. When asked about directing a sequel, Justin said, “I think there are better people for that one. I think Blake Lively’s ready to direct. That’s what I think."

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What we do have concrete evidence for is how Blake and Justin have respectively promoted the project, which warrants discussion. Starting with Blake, the most obvious part of her press tour has been her floral looks, which evoke her character's name and profession.

Blake Lively on a red carpet in an intricate gown with a detailed bodice and flowing skirt, standing in front of a backdrop with the text "IT ENDS WITH US" and floral decorations

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Blake also wore florals for her crossover event with her drinks company, Betty Buzz, which she tied into the movie with a "Betty Blooms" theme. "When your company throws a florist themed party for your movie," she wrote on Instagram. Blake also launched her own haircare line amid promotion of the movie.

Blake Lively stands in front of a "Betty Buzz Blooms" backdrop, wearing a bright, floral-patterned, pink dress with matching overcoat and heels

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Another key part of Blake's press for It Ends With Us has been discussing her husband, Ryan Reynolds, alongside his release of Deadpool and Wolverine. Ryan worked on the movie, though Blake appeared to somewhat inflate his writing contributions. Ryan also appeared in a skit where he jokingly interviewed Blake's other love interest in the movie, played by Brandon Sklenar, which Blake also shared on her Instagram.

Hugh Jackman, Blake Lively, and Ryan Reynolds stand together at the 'It Ends With Us' event. Blake wears a sparkling gown, Hugh and Ryan in suits

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Elsewhere on Blake's Instagram is a promotional video with Brandon where they make the hot chocolate cookies from the movie. She also shared a lighthearted "girl talk" video from her apartment with other female creatives on the movie, adding in the caption, "I’m gonna be sad when marketing is over and I don’t have excuses to sit on my couch dressed up with you ladies."

Blake Lively and Zoë Chao pose together at an event. Lively wears a strapless gown with intricate patterns, and Chao wears a deep-V neck dress with floral designs

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Blake has alluded to the movie's darker themes at times."I didn't have any hesitations [with taking the role]," she told Extra. "She had a lot of life experience and was still susceptible to not seeing something that she should see, given her past...I just fell in love with Lily and I really wanted to tell her story, and to be able to tell it in a way where I was able to have such authorship was really important to me."

Blake Lively on the red carpet, wearing a strapless gown adorned with floral designs and a large, feathered red shawl

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Let's contrast this with the tone with which Justin has approached the movie, which has been decidedly more serious. His Instagram bio directly links to No More, an anti-domestic abuse nonprofit that was the "charitable partner" of the movie. Justin worked with them in his depiction of violence in the movie, and he has sported their pin alongside tagging them in numerous other posts.

Instagram profile of Justin Baldoni with 2,661 posts, 3.3M followers, and 2,471 following. Bio offers help for domestic violence through @nomoreorg and linktr.ee/justinbaldoni

Indeed, speaking about abuse has been the focus of Justin's press. "The message is the most important thing. That’s why [Colleen] wrote the book," he told Today. "I was always thinking about the outcome and the why, and the one woman I was making this for who would sit in that theater and maybe not go back to her abusive relationship."

Justin Baldoni stands in front of a backdrop wearing a stylish pink suit and white mesh shirt at the "Friends & Truth" event

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"The question that's always asked is, 'Why did she stay?' That's the wrong question. What we need to be asking ourselves is, 'Why do men harm?'" Justin said in an interview with CBS that he shared on his Instagram, adding in the caption, "This was not an easy story to tell, and yet it was profoundly important. I’ve learned so much."

Justin Baldoni being interviewed on CBS Mornings about his highly anticipated new movie "It Ends with Us"

The difference in approach between Blake and Justin has not gone unnoticed. Take a cursory glance through Blake's Instagram:

Social media comments discussing a film's theme of domestic violence and abuse. One comment by abbileterry and another by sinem.ks express concerns about its promotion

There has been further backlash across social media:

Whatever is going on with the It Ends With Us drama, it is extremely weird for Blake Lively to turn the promotional tour of a domestic violence drama into a platform for her to strengthen her fashion plate status & her and Ryan Reynolds' power couple clout.

— Kayleigh Donaldson (@Ceilidhann) August 9, 2024

Twitter: @Ceilidhann

blake lively forgetting her character is a victim of domestic abuse and instead trying to give the entire press run a silly goofy barbie moment while justin baldoni is using his press time to talk about the importance of stopping the cycle of abuse is why I’m always on his side

— kelsey (@kel485) August 8, 2024

Twitter: @kel485

If you or someone you know is in immediate danger as a result of domestic violence, call 911. For anonymous, confidential help, you can call the 24/7 National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) or chat with an advocate via the website.

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